For when you need to do anything else.

A simpler way for NYC parents to find trusted babysitters—interviewed by us and recommended by families like yours.

I just want to say how much we appreciate your service. It makes our lives so, so much easier.
— Megan F.parent to 2 year old in Crown Heights, Brooklyn

What makes us different

Mom-vetted care

Personally interviewed, background-checked, and trusted by parents nearby.

No app needed

Skip the downloads and chasing replies. Just send one text and we’ll work fast to find you care.

Actually local sitters

We prioritize nearby caregivers—especially ones who know your neighborhood.

How it works

How it works
1

Tell us about your family

Share your family's needs and anything specific you're looking for in your sitter

2

Text to book

Message when you need care, and we'll select sitters that are available when you need them.

3

Enjoy peace of mind

After confirming with your sitter, you're all set. We send reminders and resources so you can focus on anything else.

For whenever you need us

Date nights

Go to that restaurant you've been meaning to try—the one with no room for strollers.

Out of towners

Just in NYC for a bit? We'll have a local sitter show your kids around and make you all feel at home.

Last-minute emergencies

Your primary caregiver is sick. Daycare is closed for a mystery holiday. You, however, still have a big meeting today.

Afternoon pickups

Fill the gaps between the end of your little one's day and the end of your day.

What families are saying

Jenna G.

Clinton HillParent of 4y & 18m

“So kind, sweet, amenable, the kids loved her. And she extended her hours when I asked on the fly. Would 100% hire her again.”

Marissa W.

Prospect HeightsParent of 9m

“She was prompt, communicative, and great with our little guy--and I'm so grateful we were able to schedule it on such short notice!”

Anna R.

Bed-StuyParent of 2y

“It went great! She gave us updates and gave us a run down of the whole day at the end. I would be happy to have her again. ”

Care you feel confident about

Each of our sitters goes through a multi-step vetting process. We prioritize ensuring sitters are paid fair wages and don't take any fees out of their pay.

  1. 1

    Video interview

    with our founder to review childcare background

  2. 2

    Background check

    including a muliti-database criminal screening

  3. 3

    Reference check

    with a previous employer to verify experience

  4. 4

    Parent reviews

    after every sit to ensure our high standards are met

Why I personally vet every sitter

Hi, I'm Ellie, a mom, former NYC babysitter, and the founder of Forwhen. I started Forwhen because finding childcare should feel reassuring, not stressful. I know how nerve-wracking it feels to leave your child with someone new, so that's why I don't approve anyone I wouldn't feel comfortable recommending to a close friend.

When you book through Forwhen, you're not choosing from strangers on the internet. You're choosing from sitters I've met, screened, and approved. Have any questions before you sign up? Text me at (347) 644-2924 or find time on my Calendly to connect.

Founder

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